While God’s working on bringing the manifestation of your mate to pass in His season for your life (notice I said in His season and not your season), He wants you to be fully aware of your worth and who you are in Christ, focus on doing His will and serving Him, and, while you’re waiting, He wants you to become the blessing, instead of just waiting for the blessing.
Ladies, He wants us to become the crown to our husbands -right now. (Proverbs 12:4)
He wants us to learn how to respect our men by respecting our natural fathers, pastors, and other male figures in our lives.
He wants us to become that Proverbs 31 woman now, as a single believer, instead of just waiting for the blessing to show up.
Women of God, we must realize that at the same time we’re believing God for a mate and wanting to be blessed, God has a son, a mighty man of valor He wants to bless as well.
Can you honestly say that you are that blessing right now?
If not, then you’ve got some work to do!
Meditate on Proverbs 31:10-31 and any area in which you see you’re lacking, meditate on that particular Scripture, repeat it out loud and become that woman in your mind and it will eventually manifest on the outside.
For instance, one of the Scriptures I meditate on is Proverbs 31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. I have to get that Scripture ingrained in me so much until I become that woman who always speaks wisdom and kind words at all times (help me Lawd Jesus lol).
Become the blessing, believe God for the blessing, and you’ll surely be blessed!
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Proverbs 31:28
Girl Please 
Excellent and oh so true. That is what I am focusing on. Going to spend more time on getting myself together..
Check this out…I think you can watch the whole series on youtube. This is part one.
I loved it thansk for sharing